Some people will justify everything they do to make themselves feel better. No matter how vicious their actions are to anyone else. They will fill their justification with half-truths and feel they are vindicated by just stating their irresponsible ‘facts’. Face the true fact of the situation and move on is all you can do.
Others may seem to jump on the bandwagon to criticize. Again… Face the true fact of the situation and move on is all you can do. There is no way you can make everyone happy, so do the best thing you can do….. Make yourself happy!
Remember… there are those that support you. I have a great bunch of friends, both on and off the internet. They are my friends….. It says so on the internet….. You can’t put anything on the internet that isn’t TRUE! Bonjour (I just love that commercial)! Well, I do have friends and they have shown me so much support this week. I appreciate each and every one of them.
Now if that don’t make ya feel better, you can look to your family. They will always make you feel better. Whether it is your son and granddaughter going to their annual Father Daughter Dance (they are so cute)…… OR spending your other granddaughter’s first weekend as a teenager complete with putting up the hair in pin-curls and facials….
So, Some Days you can take it like a champ….. And Some Days, you just need to back off the situation. Remember, when you give your time to someone, you give part of your life you can never get back. There will always be some that make you regret the time you wasted on them, BUT still give your time freely! Why? Because there are so many more times you WILL NOT regret and you revel in that well spent time. What a wonderful life, friends and family I have! That is the most important lesson I learned!